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Dark in the Light (Quarantine diaries, Room No-813)

Normal is boring, sometimes, you know. I knew that I am going to get quarantined for 15 days. And I was ready and quite excited to take this challenge knowing that it’s going to be hard, cause sometime it’s good to divert life from normal ways. It was a new challenge for a girl like me to stay in a hotel room for 15 days without having fresh air or without having face to face contact of living beings. Since, I love to take challenges, I was physically and mentally prepared for this.

My “Mirror Room”! Yes, I named it “Mirror Room” as the whole room is surrounded by mirror. Though it was not so large but I think, I got enough space for living 15 days here. The most important thing of this room is the very large window from where I can view outside world. Thanks to God, human being still exists out there. And I love the window side only for the reason that at least I can see the beauty of weather, the sunlight, rain, trees, birds, air and most importantly peoples.

Window View of My Room

Although I was prepared for the situations, as days are passing, I started feeling lonely and stressed without any reason. Of course, I am a human being, so its normal to feel these ways. Is my mind now trying to make me fall into its trap of loneliness? Is my insight getting messy day by day? No chance! I have to keep in mind, life is beautiful and of course its messy sometimes that never goes according to plan. That doesn’t mean one can’t survive when she is passing through tough times. Of course, there is light in the end of tunnel.

“Life is beautiful and of course its messy sometimes that never goes according to plan.”

My feeling of nothing to do is getting deep into mind and seems I am not engaged in the world. Am I loosing my Focus? I don’t need to be afraid to put my dream in action. I am not afraid to try. Rather, it’s better to switch negative thoughts to happiness and joy in life. There are too many reasons to stay happy. And today is valentine’s day the whole world is showering with love. Love in the crowd is so colorful with so many objects and purposes. But here in this mirror room, Love is black and white, simple, sweet and pure. The definition of love changes with the time, place and situations though love remain the same. Like this, Each and every upcoming level of your life will demand a different version of you based on the situations.

Valentine Gift from Hotel

“The definition of love changes with the time, place and situations though love remain the same.”

Life is very short and every situation of it is temporary. A beautiful bird is sitting in a tree I can see through my window. It is raining out there with a wind. The bird is still sitting there not only because it needs a shed to save itself from getting wet, but also it knew how strong its leg and wings to save itself from the wind. Apparently, like the bird, A strong girl can never give up rather she come back stronger after crossing the tunnel. I am trying to divert my thought of being loneliness to create happiness with what I have now.

Companions of 14 Days

Now I can relate, the writer of 365 Days for Travelers truly wrote “Where is happiness? Why Keep Praying to the divine for happiness or begging the Buddha for a way to find happiness? Happiness has always been in our hearts.”

“Where is happiness? Why Keep Praying to the divine for happiness or begging the Buddha for a way to find happiness? Happiness has always been in our hearts.”

Well I don’t need many things to pleasant my mind, one cup of coffee with small lovely talk (right now over the phone) is enough for me.

Where is happiness?

Oh Mind! Why human mind changes every time? Sometimes it feels like the spring, sometimes feels like Queen, sometimes like the Ocean and again sometimes it is full of emptiness. Mind is boundless and nobody can control mind. And my mind is now showering with joy as I am going outside tomorrow, I can feel the nature again. It feels like, God is giving me another opportunity to live happily in human world. Life is beautiful and I am going to make the rest of my life, the best of my life. I am in.

Finally I did it!

“Life is beautiful and I am going to make the rest of my life, the best of my life. I am in.”

Observing International Mother’s Day-2019

Mother is the best gift that the world has ever given us. ‘Mother’ is the supreme human being in this world to a person. We can’t express the feeling regarding her because she is in the heart of everyone whom we can feel silently. She is that valuable person who gets gift of nurturing life. ‘Mother’ is inexpressible since she can conduct with the hardship to being mother because God gives her more endurance and patience than another else. A mother is an angel without wings whose heart is full of forgiveness and love. She is the only one without whom a family is incomplete and a home is in darkness.

“A mother is an angel without wings whose heart is full of forgiveness and love.”

Mother’s Day is an occasion that is celebrated every year in different parts of the world. It is a day to express respect, honor, and love towards mothers that reminds the importance and significance of her in our life. Without any break, she relentlessly performs her duty for the well beings of her children. The celebration of Mother’s Day allows us to reflect on how we are connected as a family and who we want to be as a family.

In the time of ancient Greeks and Romans, celebration of mothers and motherhood was a festive in honour of the mother goddesses. But later, for Mother’s Day the early Christian festival was well known as “Mothering Sunday”. Over time the Mothering Sunday tradition shifted into a more secular holiday where children would present their mothers with flowers with token of appreciation. This tradition becomes widely recognised with the rise of American Mother’s Day in the 19th century.

The modern Mother’s Day arose by the endeavours of Anna Jarvis who was a social activist and community organizer during the American Civil War period. She wanted to honour her mother and set aside a day to honour all mothers because she believed that a mother is a divine person who has done more thing for her child than another else in the world. However, by virtue of the efforts of Anna Jarvis, in 1914 President Woodrow Wilson signed a proclamation determining Mother’s Day as a day for American citizens to show the flag in honour of those mothers whose son had died in war. Every year the day is celebrated around the world in the second Sunday in May with much affection.

Those who have a mother are really fortunate and it is like ‘heaven on the earth’. Unfortunately, with the rise of nuclear families in our society, the golden days are gone where old mothers are used to be held in the high dignity. We children grow up and migrate to different cities or countries leaving our mother in old-age home by forgetting our origin. Every moment our mother thinks about us but our money-making and self-seeking tendency don’t notice the tender love of a mother for her children.

When love is withheld a mother turns out broken down. Isolation, loneliness and monotony are the most common issues of a mother when children were not around her. We should keep in mind that she demands more care when we stay away from her. The mother-child relationship is one of the most long-lasting and emotionally vivid social ties. Unluckily, most of today’s generation people forget the value of emotion and social ties with mother.

A mother is not just a mother for a specific day but for whole life. As we are growing up, we should look after our mother and also we should need to spend time with them to reduce their loneliness make them happy. We have to come out from the cave of corporate society and serve our mother who brought us into this beautiful world. It is unrealizable to think of life on the universe without mothers.

Most mothers work hard to take care of us and our family. No matter what and how many times a child fail, she always supports her child and builds our confidence by following different ways. She teaches us every good thing and she is the one who never wants us to cry. She always cares about child’s education and motivates us to chase our dreams. She teaches us how to be strong, how to be caring, and that’s why we can proudly say that she is the reason for what we are today. No matter how aged we are we remains her baby forever.

In this significant day, every person should remember that mother is an angel on the face of the earth. We should love our mother and respect her because there is no other creation in the planet as caring like she is.


This article was also published in Daily Observer Op-Ed on 12 May 2019.

Amazfit T-Rex Unboxing

The Amazfit T-Rex is the latest smartwatch from Huami, and it’s the first to really target the rugged, outdoorsy market and fitness freaks, with military-grade drop testing and triathlon tracking. I will get it out of the box and take the first look.